Tuesday, 27 December 2016

A Bengal Christmas at Kolkata

24th December, the day before Christmas Day started early for the young ones. They got themselves
engrossed in making a Manger and placing images of the Nativity. Some of them were running around with huge wooden ladder and climbing to tie out the colourful paper strips in the locality. Soon the area, our small Christian Para (Christian Dwelling) wore a real festive look ! Their hectic work schedule were often punctuated by shouting from grandpas and grandmas “time for lunch... please come home....” But their routine answers were “just  ten minutes more, and we would be through !” My daughter- in- law made a huge show-man which was placed next to a Santa outside our home. It was very nicely made . By the time we could gather for the lunch it was already well paste
noon !

After the Lunch it was continuation of the routine for the boys, and, this time the girls took the charge of the decorating the church... with lots of mistletoes and flowers of varied colours.

25th December, 2016
We woke with the boom of the sound box playing “jingle bells”. Around 7.30 in the morning we all gathered in our church of the locality. It is a small church with a sitting capacity of about 40 . On occasion like this we arrange for close circuit television transmission on the first floor room of the church so that those
who could not make it inside the church can still can go upstairs and join the worship. It was an hour-long service. Less of sermon and more of carols ! Along with traditional English tune carols, we also sing a few Bengali Christian songs set on old folk tunes. After the service we gathered outside the church for cake and coffee. There after we had Christmas Tree and all at the congregation got some useful prizes by picking up lucky number. The  prizes were house hold items like comb, tea stainer, mug, soap case, small kitchen cans and so on ! There after we gathered to pose for a family photograph...... a very old tradition very religiously followed every year.... of course the photographer changes with
changing times. In olden days it was one of my uncles who was a passionate photographer who did it. Thereafter my elder brother-in-law, followed by me for some years. Presently my son is doing the photography for the past several Christmas !

Thereafter, there was the gathering of friends and  relatives inside and outside our house.... with hot coffee,  home made cakes and my daughter made a lot of chocolates to share for this occasion.   
Around noon relatives from far flung places started arriving for the Christmas Lunch. This is a participatory event where every one shares the
expenses for the food. I have some long tables which  are taken out of our store-room for this occasion ! The lunch menu was very much a Bengali fare... Rice, Dal, mixed vegetable curry, chicken curry, sweet chutney, papad and sandesh (milk sweets). There were about 50 persons joining the meal.


In the evening I was sitting on a chair in front of the decorated Manger... playing Santa, by presenting each visiting child a small Santa replica and a toffee ! Till late evening there were a good number of children who visited this festive arena. Around  9.45  in the night we had our night meal .... the loud speaker outside still playing  “Man will live for ever more because of Christmas Day”!








Friday, 9 December 2016

The Four Family Friends : May be a bit traditional !

A FRIEND IN NEED – 1 : “SHAAN WALLAH”

For the past about one year everyone in the house was nagging me for not doing a simple task i.e. sharpening of our kitchen “Boti”. Well, now what is a boti ? Simply speaking.. it is a kitchen knife… but not  so simple to operate….. and more difficult is to get it sharpened ! Each Bengali household will have at least two of them.. one is called “aash boti” for peeling off the scales of fishes,and, cutting fish . The other  one is “sabji boti”  for cutting vegetables. It is a sharp iron blade, about one and half inch broad and around 12 inch long. The blade is “s” shaped and one side is fixed on a wooden plank. Unlike the chopper  running through the vegetable or meat, a boti is a stationary thing…. the vegetables or the meat pieces would be pushed on the sharp blade with the thumb while the wooden plank would be held tightly in one feet … a very dangerous act… not many know the art these days. When an onion is cut in the this Boti you would only see the fingers moving very fast on a jet speed, and before you say cheese, you would find super-finely chopped onion, like silk thread, pouring on the plate below  !
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It was usually noon time when the loud calling could  be heard “shaan walla, shaan walla” and Deep would be asked by his parents to get the man. Deep would run all around the locality and following the sound locate the man. This man would carry a very unusual tool…. sharpening equipment. It looked like an “X” made with heavy wooden plank… on one top end there would  be the sharpening wheel, tied with it with a string would be the pedal. The man would sit on the other top end of the “X” and pedal hard holding the “boti” …..then  lot of particles of fire would be flown around on all sides… a visual delight ! Deep’s great interest was to see the fire-works ! Once the sharpening job is over the man would lift the heavy equipment on his shoulder…. and again start walking with usual calling “shaan walla”.Deep always felt un-easy for the man who carried such an heavy thing on shoulder.
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I was going to the market and suddenly saw this young man on the road outside our house. He was on cycle…. on his cycle there were a lot of knives and botis on display… there was this sharpening wheel fixed on his cycle. Eureka….. I came rushing back home and said hand me over the two botis, I think I got a man.
He explained .. he is Miraj. He owns this improvised sharpening equipment…. It was made by re-modelling an old bi-cycle. Going is tough these days…each sharpening job fetches about Rs. 15/-… therefore he also sells botis and hand made knives… that way he manages to  eke out his living.
Just to respond to my curiosity he informed that the man who used to carry the old fashioned sharpening equipment was Sorab, his father. He further informed that this sharpening business is no more a workable profession.
I am sure, soon this friend-in-need will no longer be visible in the locality. In any case using Boti is fast becoming an old fashioned way of cooking ….. there are now multi-coloured chopping board… and of course wafer-thin choppers flooding the market, they do not need to be sharpened in any case.


A FRIEND IN NEED – 2 : “DAAB-DAAB”
“Well, you are now free of stomach ulcer” the doctor announced. Pakhi, my wife was visibly happy on this news. “But you must follow certain food restrictions…. no chillies… no hard spices” doctor added.
At home the relatives those who assembled,  were all happy. Those days a horde of relatives, especially the elderly aunts and uncles would eagerly await for the patients, to get the first-hand news. There were some elderly aunts who suggested that she should take tender coconut water every day. “Before lunch”.. one aunt added.
Now, I thought it was easy.  Tender coconut or Daab as it is locally called, was available in Paan (bittle nut) -cigarette shops.  Ganesh Rout’s shop was near our house…. this was the place we used to fetch Daab in our youth-days. I set out for the shop.

On reaching at the shop, two things I noticed. One, Ganesh is no more there… there was an young man managing the small shop. Two, the shop is more decently decorated.  When asked, this young man informed that he is the son of Ganesh, and, he never sells coconuts any more. “In fact, no paan-cigarette shops would be selling coconuts any more”.he informed me.  Now I was panicked, and, asked is there a way out ? He gave me a tip. “Go near the temple of our locality, and, wait. Soon Sushilda would turn up…. he sells them”.  I waited in front of the temple, nearly an hour and finally found my redeemer!  He assured me steady supply…. every day before lunch time.  Next several months Sushil  dutifully accomplished his job religiously.. no matter it is a rainy day or a scorching sunny noon.  Near our house we could hear him shout “Daab….Daab”. He re-modelled his cycle by making two bamboo-made fence-like structure on both sides of his cycle where he hanged bunches of tender coconut.Soon he became my friend…. I learned that his full name was Sushil Halder, and he lived in a village called Raipur in our neighboring district.. 24 parganas.
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Our grand daughter Ruhani, studying at 5th standard,  was about to set out for her school when she complained that last night she had a stomach problem. And right at the moment ….. we heard the loud calling……”Daab…..Daab”. I rushed out…. and lo behold – Sushil.  I never knew he is still in the same business !  He is a a bit old now….. so am I.
We both were happy, meeting each other, after a long interval of several years.  Ruhani left for school, happy and relieved, after having the coconut water.
Sushil on his part , as usual, informed that going is tough these days. No…no. He has no complain about the price he gets. The tender-coconuts he used to sell me those days for Rs. 4/- only, now fetches 20/-. He feels,  because of our  mobile phones…… tall mobile towers….. which  disturbs the tall coconut trees, the size of coconuts are fast getting reduced ! I did not contest his scientific theories, but could only say  “thanks”….. which sounded very dry and artificial, even to my own ears !

A FRIEND IN NEED – 3 : THE GUITAR-MAN
Little Deep came home running and was visibly excited and said “Mom, I saw the guitar-man, he is coming this way”.
“Yes, dear, I can hear the ‘tann…. tann….tann..’ sound now. Okay can you call him ?” Deep wasted no time, ran out of the entrance gate very fast and returned after a whilealong with his guitar-man.
He is the Dhunuri – the pillow-mattress repair man. He has with him this guitar-like thing, basic tool for his craftsmanship.  He took out a small square thick cloth, spread out on the courtyard in front of Deep’s house. Deep was happy to bring out the pillows… some on shoulder… some in his hands from inside thier house. He then handed over these old cotton  pillows, mostly sagging, to the guitar-man. Deep’s mom took the cotton mattress out on the courtyard …this too was handed out to the guitar-man.

The guitar-man then tore open these, one by one very carefully, not to over-damage them. Then he took out the cotton from inside these pillows and the mattress. Spread the old cotton evenly on the square piece of cloth. Most of the cotton got clotted, like ropes ! And then the magic of his guitar began ! He placed his one-string guitar on top of the cotton, and very softly ‘played’ the guitar, meaning hitting on the string with a wooden piece. With the vibration created, cotton pieces became very fluffy and soon the heap became bigger and bigger.  Thereafter the guitar-man, alias “Dhunuri”, put this cotton inside the old pillows and mattress coverings. Re-stitched those pillows covering and the mattress covering, by hand, bit by bit, without a sewing machine. Soon they were all looking new. Deep was happy and was lying down on the renewed mattress for a few minutes…. while his mom took out the money and paid the man. Deep at this juncture asked the guitar-man “can I play your guitar a bit ?” He readily agreed but cautioned “But do not hit hard on the string…. it might break the string !” Deep did try, but, it did not sound like the guitar man ‘tann’ ….’tann’….’tann’ !
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Decades later a guitar-man was located, but, my grand-daughter could not be shown the demonstration of his craftsmanship, for, we do not use cotton mattress ….. nor cotton pillows anymore ! Yet another friend-in-need on the losing trail !

A FRIEND IN NEED (4): “SIL-KATAU” MAN
There was a commotion outside and Deep’s mother had to come out of the kitchen. She found that Deep is on a heated argument with some one, at the entrance door ! The Sil-Katau man was telling “Look boy, I told you I can give you Tajmahal for Rs. 4/- and not less than that”. At this juncture, Deep’s mother laughed out  loud .. “ Tajmahal going at a such cheap price ….what is this all about !!” The man then explained “Look  Maijee (Madam),  as you know, the prices of everything has gone up, and, now my rate is Tajmahal  Rs.4/-,  Fish Rs. 3/- and  Plain Lines Rs. 2/-. “  At this point Deep’s mother told  that man,  “Look, he is only a small boy, and he really wants the Tajmahal …. you can do one thing … take Rs. 3/-, you may give a little smaller Tajmahal” . The man smiled and said “Okay, I will take Rs. 3/- from you, and,  I will not reduce the size.. be assured.”

Soon the man took out his small bag , took out different sizes of chisels and the two hammers and concentrated on  his job…. tuk, tuk, tuk, tuk. Deep  sat beside him on the ground and started watching his hand movement. He was now visibly wearing an amused and  mesmerized look.
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 It was noon time, I was waiting for the school bus which will bring my grand-daughter home from the school. And then heard  “Sil-Katau…. Sil-Katau”. The sound was emerging from among some building premise nearby, and soon the man surfaced. I called him and showed him my house, and asked him to wait for me till I come. I returned home soon with my grand-daughter and asked her to inform her grandma about us. The child surely got confused about the whole thing, but informed her grandma, who came running. Once she saw the Sil-Katau man, she knew what is it, and, soon came out with the Sil and theNora. These are two important kitchen tools, still found in many old-tradition families. Sil is a 14” long, 10” wide and  2” thick stone tablet. Nora is cylinder type black stone hammer about 10” long.  Fresh spices are ground on this Sil (stone tablet) with the help of the
Nora (black stone  hand grinder). With constant use, the surface of the sil and nora becomes smooth. Hence the surface need to chipped with chisel periodically. The Sil-Katau Man is a chipping craftsman who can make various designs…. “Criss-crossing lines”, “Fish” and of course “Tajmahal”! I could not hide my childhood nostalgia and asked “Can you chisel out a Tajmahal ?”. The man apologised and said he can only make lines and that he has only one kind of chisel and a lone hammer !
He finished his job within about 10 minutes, and the lone enthused witness to the act… my grand daughter did not get any thrill nor awestruck by the craftsman ship. I handed over Rs. 15/- for the act to the sil-katau man, and, told him to come again about a couple of months later –  lest we lose a dying tradition !